I could hear it call.
It is a frstrating path, the way of gender studies. One must constantly remember that gender differences, or least the perspectives that proclaim gender differences, differ by generation, class, and region. It is important to constantly remain patient and listen. Stay humble and be slow to anger in conversation. Again, listen, and one will hear the differences within each individual and know the unique-or unoriginal-perspectives of each. Then all arguments will be clear, all disputes known. One will see the challenge that can be made with least resistance. Only then can one truly study.